It seems to me that many readers English reading experience starts e differences because of its being filmized and retold in a nemon person, just the same as any other girl around. The suffers from being humiliated and devastated teach Jane to be persevering and prize dignity over anything else.As a re then on, but fate had decided othere and family, displacement at Gateshead Hall, the family unit. She is, to both herself and her relations, an anomaly （Lamonica 74）。

　　Shunted off to Loetimes conflicting, aspects of her developing selfhood her passion and her self-control, her desire to live as an independent being ought to do and to think well of herself, as well as her need to be accepted and thought well of by others determines her longing for kinship （Lamonica 78）。 However, for Jane, this kinship must allow for a meaningful personal identity within the relationship, which explains why Jane develops an attraction to Rochester she states he is not their kind. I believe he is of mine （Bronte 219） - and why Jane is reluctant to become Mrs. Rochester, a symbol of a self-sacrificing union. Janes finial union symbolizes the ideal harmony