"com in," god said to m, "so, you would lik to intrviw m?""if you hav th tim," i said.h smild through his bard and said: "my tim is calld trnity and is nough to do vrything; what qustions do you hav in mind to ask m?""non that ar nw to you. what's th on thing that surpriss you most about mankind?"h answrd: "that thy gt bord of bing childrn, ar in a rush to grow up, and thn long to b childrn again. that thy los thir halth to mak mony and thn los thir mony to rstor thir halth. that by thinking anxiously about th futur, thy forgt th prsnt, such that thy liv nithr for th prsnt nor th futur. that thy liv as if thy will nvr di, and thy di as if thy nvr had nvr livd..."his hands took min and w wr silnt. aftr a long priod, i said, "may i ask you anothr qustion?"h rplid with a smil."as a fathr, what would you ask your childrn to do for th nw yar?""to larn that thy cannot mak anyon lov thm. what thy can do is to lt thmslvs b lovd.to larn that it taks yars to build trust, and a fw sconds to dstroy it.to larn that what is most valuabl is not what thy hav in thir livs, but who thy hav in thir livs.to larn that it is not good to compar thmslvs to othrs. thr will b othrs bttr or wors than thy ar.to larn that a rich prson is not on who has th most, but is on who nds th last.to larn that thy should control thir attituds, othrwis thir attituds will control thm.to larn that it only taks a fw sconds to opn profound wounds in prsons w lov, and that it taks many yars to hal thm.to larn to forgiv by practicing forgivnss.to larn that thr ar prsons that lov thm darly, but simply do not know how to show thir flings.to larn that mony can buy vrything but happinss.to larn that whil at tims thy may b ntitld to b upst, that dos not giv thm th right to upst thos around thm.to larn that grat drams do not rquir grat wings, but a landing gar to achiv.to larn that tru frinds ar scarc, h/sh who has found on has found a tru trasur.to larn that thy ar mastrs of what thy kp to thmslvs and slavs of what thy say.to larn that thy shall rap what thy plant; if thy plant gossip thy will harvst intrigus, if thy plant lov thy will harvst happinss.to larn that tru happinss is not to achiv thir goals but to larn to b satisfid with what thy alrady achivd.to larn that happinss is a dcision. thy dcid to b happy with what thy ar and hav, or di from nvy and jalousy of what thy lack.to larn that two popl can look at th sam thing and s somthing totally diffrnt.to larn that thos who ar honst with thmslvs without considring th consquncs go far in lif.to larn that vn though thy may think thy hav nothing to giv, whn a frind cris with thm, thy find th strngth to appas th pain.to larn that by trying to hold on to lov ons, thy vry quickly push thm away; and by ltting go of thos thy lov, thy will b sid by sid forvr.